Happy weekend and an apology.

It was brought to my attention that I insulted a fellow romance author, something I would never, ever do intentionally! I’d like to give TL Swan an apology for mentioning a review for one of her books in my plagiarism post from a few days ago. In the review, a reader speculated that TL Swan used a ghostwriter, and I want to apologize to TL for including that reference in my post. In a private message, she assured me she does not use ghostwriters. While I didn’t accuse her of using one, I should never have included the review in my post, and I apologize to her for that.

I suppose I have been a little free on this blog, maybe a little too transparent with my thoughts. As public figures, we must always watch what we put out into the world. I know a friend of mine was complaining not long ago because he likes to post his political affiliations and opinions. A lot of people don’t agree with him, and on a public forum, it’s easy to feel the mob mentality aimed at you. Cancel culture is real, and we think that expressing our opinion won’t bother anyone–until you tick off too many people and they turn on you at the same time. Cyberbullying is a real thing. Mental health is a real thing. People use the internet, hiding behind an avatar or whatever, to say what they want to say without regard to people’s feelings and the consequences that can be involved.

I’m not a reporter; I’m not seeking the truth. I like to express my opinions on here, on my personal blog, about what’s happening in the indie community. My blog is my outlet when I need a break from writing fiction.

When you see something online that you don’t agree with, you can just keep scrolling. There is no need to comment, no need to call out that person. And if you feel like you just can’t keep your opinion to yourself, you can be respectful about it. You don’t have to be a bully. I’m not online to make enemies. I’m not out to destroy reputations, and believe me, I don’t have the clout to do that anyway. I’m here writing my books hoping to one day make a living, just like everyone else. And I blog about current indie publishing events, like thousands of other indies online.

At any rate, if you see my blog posts decrease, just know that I’m still here, wondering where to go next. My place in the romance community is important to me, my place in the indie community is important to me. I don’t want to lose either of those things, and I’ll adjust my actions accordingly.

Until next time!

7 thoughts on “Happy weekend and an apology.

  1. I’m really sorry you felt that you even needed to issue a public apology. I read the original post and I didn’t see, in any way, you calling out someone directly. I applaud you for being the bigger person though, even when you didn’t need to be. I hope whoever this is, I’ve never heard of the author in reference, is able to move forward. Life is too short to deny forgiveness.

    Can’t wait to read your reader magnet! Happy Weekend, Vania!

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  2. Like Sarah, I didn’t see where the author was targeted, but whatever. Kudos to you for stepping up. I am sorry you had to deal with her ASAP-demands, but some folks love the drama, and others “protesteth too much.”

    Enjoy your weekend, Vania and stay safe. 🙂

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  3. Vania, I read a previous blog and found it enjoyable and uplifting. This blog is not enjoyable; it is muck-raking and hurtful to other writers, whether there is fault or not. Let the parties involved sort out their concerns privately.

    If you are a writer or an aspiring writer, it is better that you develop a positive profile rather than taking down other writers.

    Looking forward to seeing a more enjoyable and positive blog about you in the future. Best wishes.

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  4. I read your blog on your earnings in 2020. As authors we spend hours crafting our books. It’s definitely not for the money. It’s because we have a story we are compelled to tell. In my opinion I think you apologised enough.

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    • We do have many stories to tell, that’s for sure! I pray my well never runs dry. It would be nice to break, but I’ve quoted Kristine Kathryn Rusch before–There are easier ways to make money. 🙂 Thanks for stopping by! Happy Spring, Jaye!


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