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It’s hard to believe that by the time this blog post is published that the first month of 2026 will already be over. There’s nothing scarier than looking back at time that’s gone and realizing you didn’t do anything. Time is a finite resource, in some ways more valuable than money, and no matter how hard you work going forward, you just can’t make up what could have been. That’s why I really dislike the phrase “Give yourself grace.” That’s fine, when you really really need it, but if I gave myself grace for all the times I’ve wanted it, I’d have half a book and two blog posts done. Not really, blogging and writing is what I love best in the world besides our new cat, Pim, but sometimes you have to get your words down first then indulge in what you consider grace (the new season of Bridgerton, anyone?).

Anyway, so 2026 is already 1/12 over, and while that doesn’t seem like much, summer will be here before you know it.
January was full of little crappy things that sucked my time away from me. I had to get a hair cut, then I took a few minutes afterward to color it because I’m not getting old without a fight. My car needed an oil and battery change and that took half the day. My son needed to go to a doctor’s appointment, and I had a dental cleaning. Then I finally put my big-girl panties on and scheduled maintenance to fix our toilet and replace our sink faucet. I hate having workmen in the apartment and with my previous health issues, not having an accessible bathroom triggered my anxiety. They were here for two hours and I managed, though I was working and had the double-whammy stress of not having a bathroom and being trapped at my desk. I was able to get through it, and now I don’t have to worry about it anymore. They gave us a new toilet, which I didn’t expect, and they chose a pretty faucet for the sink that I like looking at.
So, I’m trying to check things off my list, and last month it just seemed like everything happened at once. This month I’ll still be nickel-and-dimed out of my free time as I have to get my taxes done–unless I push that back to March–my daughter has a new-patient appointment at my dental office which I am very thankful for because they’ve told me in the past that they had reached their capacity for the insurance we have, and I have to make us appointments at the post office to get our passport applications submitted. I want to go to Florida this summer and having a passport is the only way my daughter can fly because she doesn’t have her driver’s license yet. I figured since she’s going through the paperwork and hassle that we all should, but that means figuring out a time when all three of us can go–which has to be on one of my days off work.
So, yeah, I’m giving myself some grace because those are things that I just can’t get out of, but the frustration is there because I want to get Wicked Games ready so ARCs are available in March, and mostly, because I just like working on my books and when I’m doing other, necessary garbage, that time is gone.
I did manage to finish re-editing Captivated by Her, but getting the second book in that duet, Addicted to Her, re-edited will take me a while, and I won’t have that duet re-released until probably spring at the earliest. I’m changing out the covers as well and I always order proofs when I do that. I’m hoping that once I get the things that I only need to do once every six months out of the way that my free time will open back up.
I also want to find time to do some marketing things like trying Bookbub ads again. The last time I tried was back when I was wide and I didn’t have my first person backlist. With all the AI garbage that Facebook is trying to shove on us in the ads dashboard and them taking away the ability to target bigger authors, it just feels like Bookbub ads might be easier and have just a tiny bit better ROI. I mean, I’m hoping that’s the case, not that I heard it from somewhere. But I won’t run ads without researching–I have to reacquaint myself with the platform to make sure I know what I’m doing and how much to bid, or I’ll sound like every other clueless person who says ads didn’t work for them. I get BookBub’s newsletter, and right now I’m going through their Ultimate Guide to BookBub ads, and you can read it here or bookmark it if you’re interested: https://insights.bookbub.com/ultimate-guide-bookbub-ads/. What’s also a plus is that their ad graphics are a lot easier to put together because they literally tell you what works. Facebook lets you guess, and the creative you make could break your ad and you won’t even know it. I just feel like with how little time I have that choosing a platform that doesn’t have so much guesswork is the way to go.
But there is a time and place for Facebook ads and if you want an up-to-date tutorial on which kind of ad to choose (such as traffic vs. engagement) and how to turn off all the AI stuff and choose the interests for your audience that are available, you can watch David Gaughran’s most recent tutorial here:
He doesn’t go into much of what actually makes the ad, like the description, headline, and primary text, and I think those are really important. It’s like the cover, title, and blurb that work together for your book. If you don’t have the right description, primary text, headline, and graphic, any one of those broken cogs can take the whole thing down (or drive cost-per-click up). So, definitely look into that part of it as well because the backend and the front end work together.
Sales are slow, which is why I’m looking for other ways to get the word out. I keep seeing that Trial Reels on Instagram is the way to go, but I still feel pretty deflated after TikTok started labeling my carousels as AI and putting that level of commitment into a different social media platform doesn’t sound appealing. It never did, but now it feels even worse. I’ve been trying to post to Pinterest, and I’ve been able to make a few pins and a few boards, though nothing that would move the needle in any significant way. On the plus side, making a pin is very easy and for the amount of time it took me to make a TikTok carousel, I can make three or four pins. Mostly it’s just another platform a reader might stumble upon and realize I’m an active author who is consistently publishing books.
But yeah, that’s been the first four weeks of 2026 in a nutshell, and I’m just going to be keeping on, keeping on. My main goal is getting Wicked Games ready, and then I can loosen up a little bit. I announce books and create deadlines so I have something to work toward. With a slow sales dashboard in a climate where a new release barely does anything because of all the content out there, it would be easy for me to just let the things that use up my free time take over. Announcing books and keeping to a timeline for anyone who just happens to be waiting keeps the spark from dying out.
This is a short blog post today, but nothing has caught my eye online to complain about, which actually is probably a good thing. Keeps my blood pressure low.
I hope 2026 has been going well for you all too! See you next week.





















